Why So Serious?

Ephesians 5:5-14


 

Introduction:

     In the popular history novel and TV series, Emperor was noted for his determination to reform, getting rid of corruption and firming up the National reserve. He had a capable governor, “田文鏡”, who carried out his order to the hilt. In so doing, he alienated himself from the rich and the powerful. Those under his rule repeatedly asked, “why so serious? we had been doing business and governing like this for hundreds of years.”

     In Almaty, I asked some new Christians “are there any differences in how you live after you become Christians?” Without any hesitation they responded, “Of course. Such as the way we think, our value system and our behaviors”. They also shared that sometimes how difficult it is to maintain the Christian standard in a very secular environment where distrust, dishonesty and sexual immorality are the norms of life.

     Don’t we sometimes feel the same? As we train our children, or as we try to conform to Christ's image, don’t we also hear: “why can’t you just lighten up a little? Why be so serious all the time?”

     In our previous studies of the book of Ephesians, we learned about living as a new and holy people. As a new people, we demonstrate unity in the midst of our diversity. As holy people, as saints, we are to imitate God, and to demonstrate his purity in our lives.

     In today’s passage, Paul continued his theme of purity, holiness in a believer’s life. We will see a simple truth that as God's holy people, we are called to manifest his purity by upholding a high moral standard. We are also provided with different incentives for holding onto this high standard.

I.   Our body is the Holy Spirit’s dwelling place.

    In 1 Cor 6:19, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own.” The scripture tells us that the Holy Spirit lives within us. If so, then we want to make sure that we’ll do nothing to defile this house of God.

     Two weeks ago, I visited Tomak, a small city in Krgystan. There we met a new believer whose diet consists of some pork. She had a 30 year old daughter who was a devout Muslim. Whenever she came to her house, she would clean all the bowls, dishes, chopsticks and other utensils because they had contact with pork which was considered unclean in the Muslim faith. She didn’t want anything unclean to touch her.

     The scripture tells us that the Holy Spirit lives inside us. This is the reason we are to stay away from anything that contradicts his holiness.

II.  We are to live like saints. V3.

     In verse 3, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.” Paul is saying how we live must reflect that we are God's holy people, we are saints. Sexual immorality, even a hint of it, is inappropriate for God's people.

     A devout Muslim knows what kind of food he/she should avoid. What kind of clothing is proper. If you go to a “清真寺” restaurant, don’t expect to find any pork dishes. From the hats and black clothing, you can tell if a person is a Hassidic Jew. When we travel overseas, our passport will reveal our nationality. And sometimes, depending on what passport we hold, we will also get some preferential treatment.

     How does our world know that we are Christians? Not by that baptism or membership certificate. The scripture says it’s by our behaviors.  We are God's holy people. The specific behavior he mentioned in this chapter is sexual morality. Whether we are in Houston, New York, Almaty, HK, Beijing, Taipei we all have similar moral problems. Our society tells us that sexual relationships outside and before marriage should not be a concern to us anymore. Lighten up a little in this area, the world tells us.     

     A person stopped going to church because she felt the church had no right to tell her whom she wanted sleep with. Another person was at the verge of putting her faith in God, but could not do it because she was living with her boy friend.

     However, when we become Christians, it is different. We begin to live by a different set of principles. You see, when we put our faith in Jesus Christ, we have become God's holy people. Therefore our behaviors should clearly reflect God's holiness. 

III.     There is judgment for the

     In verses 5 to 7, Paul mentioned that for those who are engaged in sexual immorality, they were outside God's kingdom, God's wrath would come upon them, they were children of rebellion (as compared to children of God). God's wrath will come upon them. In other words, God will judge those who engage in sexual immorality.

     In Paul’s days, there was the early form of gnosticism. They taught that body and soul are two completely separate compartments. If you were a believer, what you did with your body, such as sexual immorality will not affect the salvation of your soul. But here Paul said that this is wrong. Don’t be partners with these people. Or else we’ll face God's judgment. This refers to the final judgment, eternal separation from God.

     However, having said this, we also need to remember the assurance of our salvation. When we sin out of our spontaneous weakness, or ignorance, there is always God's grace and forgiveness. No one can separate us from God's love. This is what we mean by eternal security. But when we sin continually without any shame or remorse, we may begin to wonder if we knew Christ in the first place. This is quite a severe warning, isn’t it?

IV.  We are the Light.

     Vs 8, “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light.” Paul further explained to the believers the reasons for living differently. He said that previously you were darkness. That is, you were ignorant about God and his character; you were in error regarding God and spiritual matters. But now, you are light. Please note that its not that you must walk in the light, but that you are the light. Jesus is the Light of the world, but when we put our trust in him, we also become a light. Therefore, being light, we are to radiate light. So, what are some characteristics of being the light?

1.     Light brings about the positives in life.

     Vs 9, 10, “for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth, and find out what pleases the Lord.”  First,  light brings about goodness. Goodness means wanting good, seeing good, doing good and being good. It means when we see others, we see what is good in them. We learn to trust and accept them. Yes, it is risky, we maybe taken advantage of by others. We do good to others, such as helping them when they are in need. It means being selfless for the good of others. Sometimes it involves helping them financially, or it could also mean being patient and being a good listener. Someone has said that the highest compliment one can have is to have friends and family members write this on the tombstone, “Here Lies a Good Man.” As light, we are to be good.

     Secondly, not only are we to be good, but also to do what is right. What is right in God's eyes. In some societies and families, it is not acustom to say words of gratitude and appreciate for service or work performed. For we consider it as one’s duty. But saying thank you and words of appreciation is the right thing to do. Besides, do we sacrifice principles for personal gain? When we are given extra change at the check out, do we keep the money or do we return it to the store? Do we cheat and be dishonest so we can get that dream job?

     By being good we help those in need, but we must also do what is right and proper. A missionary was asked to write a letter of recommendation for a youth so he could study abroad. He willingly agreed. But when he found out that in this letter, he also needed to write something untrue, he hesitated and turned him down. It is good that we help our friends but we must do what is right. Do we help others to be dishonest and deceptive? These are some hard but necessary questions that we have to ask. In one prayer, are these words, “Today, O Lord, let me put right before interest. Let me put principle above reputation.”

     Thirdly, besides doing good, doing what is right, there is also the fruit of being true. This means that in my relationship with others, there is also the need to be truthful. I am to avoid any hidden agenda when I communicate with people around me, no matter how proper I think my cause is. There must not be any falsehood when I relate to those that God has brought into my life. To be true, also means being transparent in my personal relationships with others.

     This past week I heard on the news that in one city, a law was passed that it is a crime when politicians make any kind of false promises during a campaign. We prefer to associate with people who are good, right and true. So, as children of Light, being light, it is our goal in life to be good, right and true. These are things that please God.

2.     Light exposes what is evil.

     Being light means doing what is good, right, true and  pleaseing to God. But in vs 11-13, “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible,” In these few verses Paul points out that light also exposed what is dark, what is wrong.

You see, when we do what is good, right and true, we also expose behaviors that are not right, not good and false. When I refuse to take in bribery, I am telling others that bribery is wrong. When I refuse to help my friend be dishonest, I am also suggesting to him that he is wrong and unethical. When I refuse to give into sexual temptation, I am telling the other person that such behavior is wrong. Sometimes it’s easy to do what is right or not to do what is wrong by myself. But when we are with others, by not going along with them, we are also sending a message to them that this is wrong. It could hurt that person’s feeling; he may feel offended and rejected. This is the tough part, right? We don’t mind doing the good and right. But if by doing  will expose those sins and falsehood in people around me, I may have a second thought. If by saying that sexual immorality, or dishonesty is not pleasing to God, someone may get offended and stop coming to church; will I still proceed? 

     The scripture tells us that when we live as light, we will expose the sins and darkness around us. Sometimes it means that we may even have to rebuke others for their behaviors. It is difficult, but it is the right thing to do.

Conclusion:

     The first century Ephesus, 21st century Houston, San Francisco, NY, Almaty, Beijing, Taipei and HK all have something in common. A breakdown of sexual moral standards.

    When we reject the existence of absolute truth, refuse to obey any authority; resulting in moral relativism. What we care about is my own personal choice. No one can tell me what to do and what not to do.

     But as Christians, this is different. We believe the existence of God, the absolute truth. Therefore we also recognize that there is a different standard that governs all of our life.

     I think of the two new believers in Central Asia, both in their 60’s. When I saw them just before my departure, they both repeatedly said, “I know from now on I have to live according to God's word.” Even though they are new in faith, it appears that they have a good understanding of what it means to be a follower of Christ. This is how Paul summarizes this passage in vs 14: “for it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”

     We were once in darkness, we were dead, but now Christ has caused us to live again, we have become a light in Jesus Christ. This is why we are to be different from others. We are different because God's spirit lives within us. We are different because we are a holy people, we are different because we want nothing to do with God's wrath. We are different, because we are the light, we are to radiate what is good, right and true into this dark world. And for this reason, we hold onto that higher standard of living.

Rev. William Hsueh    Apr 08, 2001    Houston Chinese Church,  Houston, Texas