What God Wants From Us

Our love for God and others must be at the very center of our Christian life.

Introduction:

When we come together to pray, it is quite easy for us to know what to ask God for. We ask for health, financial security, successful study and work, relational/family stability. We also know what to ask God on the church's behalf. To some it could be spiritual renewal, or money for various projects. Obviously, these requests reflect what we consider as important for ourselves and the church.

We may know what we want from God. But do we know what God wants from us? If we are to say to God, tell me one thing you want from us. What do you think his response will be? In chapters 2 and 3 of Revelation, there are 7 letters to 7 churches of the first century. The messages in these letters will give us a clue as to what God desires from His church.Let's briefly look at the background of this passage. Around AD90, apostle John, writer of the Gospel of John, and the epistles of John, was exiled to Patmos Island. One Sunday morning, God appeared and revealed to him events that would occur in the future, including special messages to the 7 churches. So John wrote down what he saw and heard. When he finished his writing, this book of Revelation became the last book in the NT. So, within 70 years after Jesus' death and resurrection, the entire NT was completed.

To day and in the following weeks, we will be studying the letters to the 7 churches. These 7 letters all follow a similar pattern. Each letter is prefaced by an instruction to write to one specific church, followed by an identification of the author in very descriptive terms. The body of each letter consists of each church's positive characteristics, words of encouragement, rebuke and warning. Each letter concludes with a charge to listen, a promise to those who conquer. The orderliness and symmetry of the 7 letters clearly suggest that they are intended not only for the 7 specific churches, but the universal church, including us.

In this first letter, the author is described as the one who holds the seven stars in his right hand and walks among the seven golden lampstands. From the context, this person is Jesus Christ. 7 lampstands refer to the 7 churches. It's a little difficult to interpret the 7 stars. The best way is to take the literal meaning: the 7 messengers of the 7 churches. This letter is written to the Esphesus church. If tradition about John was correct, the moment he heard, "to the angel of the church in Ephesus.." his pulse must have increased, maybe even sweating a little. Because tradition says that John was an elder in that Ephesus church for many years. If I would go to a seminar, and out of nowhere the speaker mentions Houston Chinese Church as an example, I too would be very nervous, wondering what he was going to say. Good things about us or.... This is what John might have felt that sunday morning.

Lets also explore a little more about John. Church tradition identifies John as first, son of thunder. Pointing to his refusal to compromise doctrinal purity. He refused to tolerate any heretics in his church. He is also known as the apostle of love. This is evident from his writings: Gospel of John, and 1,2,and 3 John. It was said that in his old age, he reduced all his sermons to one sentence which he repeated at every gathering: love one another.

What do we know about this church at Ephesus? In Acts 20, during her early years, we read about Paul reminding the church elders to guard the flock and to protect them from heresy, false or half true doctrines. In Ephesians 1:15, Paul commended them for their love towards all the saints. Like her leader John, the church at Ephesus was known for her doctrinal purity and love. By the time this letter in Revelation is written, many years have lapsed. John must have been anxious to know what God had to say to this church to which he was a leader for many years. So, what is the church like now?

I. A church in action.

First we read about its positive characters.

1. Zeal undimished

v2, "I know your deeds, your hard work and your perseverance." They are still faithful to the truth, active in ministry, busy with church work.

2. suffered.

v3, "You have persevered and have endured hardships for my name, and have not grown weary."The christians there had suffered for Jesus Christ's name. They were persecuted because of their faith in Him. In those days, the persecution or suffering frequently took the form of economics. They were discriminated by their society or government, being excluded from certain jobs. They suffered financially.

3. Sound doctrine.

v2, "I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but are not, and have found them false..." v6,"you hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate.." The church at Ephesus still held onto proper and pure doctrine. They were keen in distinguishing any falsehood from truth. The Nicolaitans in v6 was a sect with Nicolaus as the leader. Some church tradition identifies him as one of the 7 deacons in the Antioch Church. This group retained pagan practices: under the banner of spiritual liberty, they practised idolatory and immorality. They had worked out a compromise with the surrounding society. 3 churches were affected by their teaching: Ephesus, Pergamum and Thyatira. This heretical group was soundly defeated and rejected by the Ephesian church.

This is a positive description of the church. A church in action. Hard working, busy with church work, upholding doctrinal purity.

II. A church in crisis.

Then there's a change of tone. v4,"Yet I hold this against you..." The Ephesian church worked hard, pure in doctrine, but something was wrong, something was missing. "..You have forsaken (lost, let go) of your first love." The love they first had, was no longer there anymore. They lost it. There was a sense of urgency in these words. "Yet I hold this against you. You have forsaken of your first love." The Ephesian church was in crisis. There is a two fold meaning to this love.

1. Love for God.

A reference to loving devotion to God. Jeremiah 2:2 can help us understand this word better,"I remember the devotion of your youth, your love as a bride, how you followed me in the wilderness." This love for God is like that love between two newly wed couples. There is devotion to the other person. This love is rational, logical and also emotional.

What is the origin of this love? John knows this well. When we recognize our sinfulness and brokenness before God, that before this holy God, we are filthy and worthy. Yet he still loves us. He came into the world and died on the cross for our sins and the punishment we deserve. He unconditionally loves and accepts us. When I see this love, then my only possible response is to love him with all my heart, all my mind and all my might. And this is what John writes in his epistles, "We love because he has first loved us." This love for God had inspired christians to write:

My Jesus I love thee, I know thou art mine;
For thee all the follies of sin I resign;
My gracious redeemer, my saviour art thou;
If ever I loved Thee, my Jesus tis now. (#301)

or

There is a name I love to hear, I love to sing its worth,
It sounds like music in mine ear, the sweetest name on earth.
O how I love Jesus, O how I love Jesus, O how I love Jesus,
because he first loved me. (#302)

This love is both rational and emotional. It is intense and intimate. But the christians at Ephesus had lost it.

2. Love for one another.

Another meaning to this word love is, love for one another. There was a time when the Ephesian church was known for its love and help for fellow believers. In John 13:35, Jesus says,"If you love one another, the world will know that you are my disciples." Loving one another is that distinctive hallmark in Christian faith. Our love for one another is expressed in caring, praying, bearing other's burdens, forgiving each other. Schaeffer wrote many years ago that our love for each other is christianity's final apologetic.

Sadly, the believers at Ephesus had lost both their love for God and for each other. Do you see how they are inter-related? When one's personal love for God cools off, loss of love for one another is inevitable. When my loving devotion for God is gone, I would no longer care for the person next to me. He or she is just another object. I wouldn't really care about what's going on in his/her life. Not to mention helping him.

The church at Ephesus had allowed busy church work, sound doctrine to replace that first love they had for God. What does God want from his church? He wants that first love, that loving devotion to be their center, their focal point. Why? What is the essence of the Christian faith? God desires a loving relationship with his people. For this, he came into the world and died on the cross so we can be retored to him. He first loved us and we responded by loving him. This is the core/center of our relationship with God. And out of this center, we are motivated to search and love for pure doctrine, active involvement in the church and loving one another. But the Ephesian church had lost its center.

I certainly feel uncomfortable when my preaching arrives at this point. Its hitting home. This letter is no longer a letter to that church at Ephesus, it has become a letter to the church at 10305 S. Main, a personal letter to William Hsueh or to anyone listening this morning,"He who has an ear, let him hear..."

As a church or individually, we still hold on to doctrinal purity. We may not all agree on some of the finer points in some of the doctrine, yet we consider our doctrine as proper and orthodox. We are also busy in the various ministries in the church. But we have lost our first love for God. That loving devotion, that intimate and intense love for God is missing. To many of us, we too have lost that center.

What had happened? Its really not that hard to trace it. You see, when we discovered Jesus Christ and His love for us, we responded by following him. We loved him with all our heart and might. We talked about him to others. As we grew in the church, we also began to get involved in various ministries. We taught SS, led BS, fellowships and small groups. Then more responsibilities were put upon us. We may be incharge of different ministries or committees. We may become a deacon or an elder. We are nourished or pushed by organizations, meetings, plannings and goals. In Earl Palmer's words,"Taking the place of that first love for God, is a starchy high cholesterol diet of activity and church work, that will never nourish one's soul."

You see, the irony is: What in the first place attracted us to Jesus Christ: His love for us, and christians love for God and for each other, is now replaced by activities, arguments on the fine prints of certain doctrines, by-laws and style of ministry. These things in the first place would have never attracted us to God. I still have not met anyone who is attracted to God, because they see the Christians so busy with the church activities and the way they discuss and argue about certain doctrines, or how things should be done in certain ways. But somehow, these things have become the center, and we have lost our first love. Sometimes when we deliberately do something displeasing to him, or misplace our priority, will also cause us to stray away from him, losing our first love for him.

Like the church at Ephesus, some of us too, may be in a crisis.

III. A church at crossroads.

The Ephesian church had lost it first love. But before this letter arrived at their mailbox, they probably were busy doing their ministries, defending doctrinal purity. But as they opened up this letter, they were presented a choice. Vs 5, "Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place." They had lost the center, and God was calling them to return, to repent, to regain this center.

They could either remember where they had fallen, repent and do the things they did before, or carry on with business as usual. If they remembered where they failed, repented and did what they did, that is, loving God whole heartedly, and loving each other, in vs 7, they were promised the right to eat from the tree of life. This is an assurance and confirmation of one's participation in God's eternal kingdom.

But if they failed to obey and repent, insisting on business as usual, refusing to change, then Jesus Christ, the lord of the churches will come and remove the lampstand. That is, the removal, or destruction of the christian witness from that place.

What did the Church at Ephesus choose? We don't know. But this we learn from history: both the city and the church vanished. Instead, it's now a place called Ayasaluk, meaning "saint theologian". It commemorates not the church but the apostle John.

Before we came to church this morning, we could definitely continue our life as usual. But now, if we have been listening for the past 40 minutes, we are presented with a choice. We too are at a crossroads. We have to decide for ourself whether or not we have lost this first love. That fervent, loving devotion for God, and love for one another. If this love is missing in us, God is now calling us to return to this center. To regain that first love.

If we deliberately refuse to return to that first love, the warning to the christians at Ephesus still stands today. Eventually we will lose our christian witness. Our light will be dim if not diminished, and our salt will be tasteless. God can certainly raise other churches and christians to take our place.

I think of the churches in Europe. Once a stronghold and fortress of Christianity, they were a base from which thousands of missionaries were sent out. But today its like a spiritual desert. We don't have to let this happen to us. God still waits for us to turn around.

Conclusion:

What does God want from us? Yes, doctrinal purity is important, active service is also important. But above everything else, He wants us to come back to the center, the core of our Christian faith. That is, His loving relationship with us. In this relationship, our love for God and for each other must remain at the center of our existence. God wants our life to be motivated by this love.

How can we regain that first love? I have a simple suggestion. We need to come before God and listen to the gospel message. The message that tells us of how this holy God came into the world and died for us filthy sinners. So we can be reconciled to Him. We are to listen again and agin to his unconditional love, acceptance and forgiveness.

Sometimes we Christian make the mistake of thinking that the gospel message is only for the non-Christians. Once we become Christians, then we move on to some deeper message, and begin to focus on ministry. Yes, these are important. But what is even more important is to continue to listen to the gospel message. To let God's love constantly compel our hearts and minds.

Rev. William Hsueh    Feb 27, 2000    Houston Chinese Church,  Houston, Texas