A Man After God's Heart

When Christians live as Christ would have them live, our lives would be so much more meaningful and abundant.

Revelation 2, 3


Introduction:

In the OT, David was described as a man after God's heart. Ever since then, men and women of God have been asking: in our own particular day and age, how shall we live that we can become a person after God's own heart?

In 1976, Francis Schaeffer wrote the book, "How Shall We Then Live?" Subsequently a video series was made from it. In the 60's he was one of the few Christian theologians and thinkers with a clear understanding of what was happening in the western civilization. In those days, the society was experiencing the impact of changes in philosophy, moral and ethical values. In his books and lectures, he explained the fast disappearance of the concept of absolute truth and warned us of what to expect in the coming years. Now almost 40 years later, many of the changes have already taken place and the cultural and moral war seemed to have settled. There are still conflicts here and there, but as a whole, the war is over.

Last year, Chuck Colson wrote the book called "How Now Shall We Live?" Picking up on some of the themes in Schaeffer's books, he wrote about how Christians are to live in this postmodern age. How Christians need to think and act in the arena of science, art, film industry and legal system.

Since early March, we have been studying Revelation chapters 2 and 3. We looked at the 7 letters to the 7 1st century churches. Each letter was a message to a real church in the first century. Seven times Jesus said, "He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches." Therefore each letter is meant for a much broader audience than the immediate congregation to which the letter was addressed. Each letter also contains a message pertinent to us in the 21st century.

This morning we want to review the messages in the 7 letters. In these 7 letters, there are two repetitious phrases. Besides "he who has an ear, let him hear", there is also "he who overcomes". The words, "he who overcomes" suggest the problems existing in that particular church. And it is God's desire that they overcome and be victorious.

The words in these 7 letters clearly tell us what God wants from us, what it does to be a person after God's heart. .

I. Jesus Christ desires a loving relationship with us.

What was the indictment against the church at Ephesus? She has lost her first love for Jesus. Yes, she was doctrinally faithful, accurate and correct in her teachings. They were still obedient to God's teaching, but her original, fervent, and devotional love for God was gone. And Jesus urged them to recapture this first love.

As Christians it is not too difficult for us to focus on the right teachings. Sometimes we may feel quite comfortable and secure to keep a list of do's and don'ts. We don't even mind the pastors regularly telling us what to do. But what if love is lacking? Christian faith can become a form of legalism. But if there is love, then it makes all the difference.

There is a country song about a young brother carrying his brother. He was asked if the brother was too heavy for him," "No, because he's my brother." If you love your job, you don't mind going in at 6 or 7 and working long hours. If you don't love it, any hour is a drag.

Isn't this true in our relationship with God? When the love is gone, all that's left is the motion of doing things. Yes, activities and projects are very tangible. We can see its beginning and end. But without love, it can become legalistic and burdensome. What God wants most from us is our love for him. He wants a loving relationship with us. He wants us to obey his words not because we have to, but because we love him.

II. He wants us to persevere in the midst of adversity.

The church at Smyrna was a suffering church. Yet in the midst of severe persecution, it stood firm. She was praised for her steadfastness.

Jesus wants us to know that adversity and hardships are a part of life. Christians are not exempt from sufferings.

Adversity can come to us in many forms. It could be in the form of outright persecution. In many parts of the world, Christians are still being imprisoned for their faith. In this country, in many universities, Christians are often ridiculed and made fun of because of what we stand for. If we speak out for our faith, we could be jeered or given silent treatment. If we take a moral stand against abortion, homosexual behavior, sex and violence on TV, we are labeled as the religious right. Meaning that you are uneducated, irrational and illogical.

Adversity can also come to us in the form of financial, emotional and physical hardships. In these situations, its easy to give up, to close the door on God. Yet Jesus said, "you will have troubles in this world, but take ease, for I have overcome them." Jesus taught us that when we are in the world, there will be troubles. Troubles and adversities will come to everyone. The bible never teaches that if we love God, then he will bless us with wealth, health and success. No, the teaching is always that when we are poor, he will provide us with what we need. When we are sick and suffering, he is there with us. He will surround us with his love and grace. He will walk with us as we go through the valley of shadow of death. He reminds us that in the midst of hardships, do not give up, hang in there. Be steadfast.

III. He wants us to be pure in doctrine

The church at Ephesus was accurate in doctrine, whereas the Pergamum church had compromised in her teaching. She had allowed false teachers to alter and dilute God's word. Jesus wants his church, his people to hold on to the untainted truth that he has revealed to them.

At different times, Christians are tempted to compromise in different teachings. In the first 2 to 300 years, the issues were on who Jesus is. Is he just a man? Or is he just God. In the 1500's, the church went astray by teaching salvation by means of faith plus works. In the 1900's compromise was in the area of the nature of inspiration. Many churches taught and are still teaching that the bible is not God's word. But that it contains God's word. Therefore, it also consists of errors and mistakes. In the 1990s, we are constantly bombarded by the teaching of wealth, health and success. Often we are told if we love God, if our faith is strong, then we will not face adversities. Then we will become prosperous, success and healthy. To the new immigrants and those struggling to make a living, this is very attractive, isn't it?

How wrong such teachings are. The bible never teaches us that if we love him, we will be healthy, prosperous and success. How can we be doctrinally pure? There is no easy way except to be diligent students of the Word. How does the bank train the new tellers? To study and study what the real bills look like. So when the fake ones show up, they would recognize it right away. As we become students of God's word, we will be able to spot the false doctrines. The question we need to ask is not: is it good for me, but is it true? Is it consistent with the rest of the biblical teachings.

IV. Jesus desires us to live a life of holiness.

The church at Thyatira tolerated sins among them. They did nothing to correct and rid those sins. They closed one eye to what was happening around them.

Sin is any thought and behavior contrary to God's character, that is opposite to Him. Jesus wants us to have nothing to do with sins. To stay away from sin and also to stay away from things that can lead us into sin. Why this emphasis on sin? Can we be more tolerant and acceptance. The answer is quite simple and straightforward. Because God is holy, therefore those who belong to him should also be holy.

We need to ask ourselves are we tolerating any sin in our personal lives? Is there greed? Am I worshipping money and success instead of God. How about hatred, bitterness, resentment towards another person? Do I use God's name in vain? Am I unwilling to forgive someone? Is there any hint of sexual immorality in my life? What kind of books and magazines do I read, what TV programs and movies do I see? Do they honor God?

If such sins are present, then we need to repent and seek forgiveness.

V. Jesus desires us to have that inner quality.

The church at Sardis was big on appearance. It was probably huge and impressive, but hollow inside. Alive outside but dead inside. Jesus wants us to be men and women with inner quality. The important thing is not how we appear or perform in public, but what is inside us, what we are like when no one is around us.

Outwardly we maybe involved in many activities. We come to various church functions, we may even be a leader in the church. But we maybe an empty shell. Seldom do we speak to God or read His word. There's no joy, no peace within. Regarding our relationship with God, we're like a dead person.

Jesus doesn't really care what we're like externally. How we look, how active you are in church, and how spiritual our words maybe. He is more concerned about what's within us. He wants us to develop an inner quality. Everything we do should be an outflow of who we are. For those of us who serve in various ministries in this church, and there are those who are considering going into full time ministry, there is this one thing we need to remember: our ministry must be an outflow of what is within us.

In any kind of leadership training, the emphasis is not just on ministry skills but on the inner quality, on character formation.

VI. Jesus desires us to be active in witnessing.

Philadelphia was the church for which God had given them unlimited opportunity to proclaim the gospel message. They received no rebuke, only praises. Like the church at Smyrna.

Today, God has also given us great opportunities to share his good news those that he has brought into our lives.

Take this congregation for an example: where do we spend our 40-50 hours work week? Major and minor oil industries, energy and chemical companies, computer hardware and software industries, hospitals, universities, research institutes, restaurants, accounting business and so on. If we will just stand back and take a look. What do we see? It is as if the army general places his soldiers all over Houston. Is there a purpose in this? So that wherever people go, they will have the opportunity of being confronted with who Jesus is. No matter where we are, at different times God will bring different people into our lives so they can have a chance not only to listen to the gospel message but also to see the gospel through us.

VII. Jesus desires an unswerving commitment from us.

The Laodicea church was a lukewarm church. It received the sternest rebuke among the 7 churches. The one main characteristic of lukewarmness is half-heartedness, lacking commitment. What does Jesus expect of his followers? Matt 16:24, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." He is talking about the cost of discipleship.

Two weeks ago, PBS showed a movie on Dietrich Bonhoeffer. About how he was faithful to his belief and was killed by the Nazis the day before the Allied forces entered that town. He was known for the many books he wrote, including: The Cost of Discipleship. He wrote about how the churches in the 20th century had cheapened God's grace. We want it yet not willing to pay any price for it. Yes, God's grace is certainly free, but it is not cheap. It cost his son's life so that we can receive it. But his emphasis is that when the first disciples heard about Jesus telling them to take up the cross and follow him, it could mean only one thing. Death. This is the cost of discipleship. This is commitment. When I decide to follow him, I am putting my whole life at stake.

This means that when I follow Christ, I am to put to death the part of me that is incompatible to his holiness. I am putting his interest before mine. I am to seek first his kingdom and his righteousness.

Conclusion:

What does God require of us? How can we be men and women after his heart? He wants to have a loving relationship with us. That we persevere in adversities. Maintain doctrinal and moral purity, not to compromise with sins. We need to make every effort to build up our inner self. Our inner quality is so much more important than our outward appearance. He wants us to make use of the opportunities he has given us to share the gospel message with others. To manifest God's love to those whom he has brought into our lives. Then last but definitely not least, he desires our commitment to Him.

So, God has spoken. It doesn't mean that God needs all these qualities from us. If not, then He is not complete. No, this is not true. You see, even as he tells us what he wants from us, its still for our good, because He loves us deeply. He has our well being in mind. He rebukes us, disciplines us, praises us, all because he loves us very much. When we live the way God wants us to, it will make our live so much more joyous, meaningful and abundant.

Now, he has spoken, we have heard his words. What is our response?

Rev. William Hsueh    June 25, 2000    Houston Chinese Church,  Houston, Texas